The Overlooked O: Being Kind Is Not the Same as Building a Case

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Something genuinely good has happened in our response to sexual assault victims over the last decade. Officers ask better questions, advocates get called earlier, and fewer survivors are interviewed in a hospital gown under fluorescent light. 

Most first responders (whether they are patrol officers, detectives, or supervisors) are familiar with the concepts of victim-centered and trauma-informed approaches, even if they don’t use those terms regularly.  

But agencies reviewing their own files keep finding the same pattern: responses that were kind, careful, and well-documented on the victim’s side are attached to cases that closed without the suspect ever being located, examined, or interviewed.  

We believe in using what we call a VTO approach to sex assault response, which stands for: 

• Victim-Centered 

• Trauma-Informed 

• Offender-Focused 

Treating a survivor decently is necessary, which is why it’s critical to understand how to respond in a victim-centered and trauma-informed way. But these response components do not by themselves help build an investigation. That’s where the overlooked “O” in the VTO framework comes into the picture. 

Imagine It Was a Bank 

Picture a robbery at a bank branch downtown. The getaway car is gone, and now it’s time to start asking questions to figure out who did it and how they pulled it off.  

The detectives on-scene know there was an element of planning to this crime. They start asking themselves why the offenders targeted this bank at this time, and then they start looking for evidence. 

Nobody asks the teller why they opened the drawer, whether they frequently hands cash out to strangers, or what they wore to work that day. Nobody suggests they consented to the “withdrawal.” They get offered a chair, a glass of water, and an officer who believes them, and then the investigation goes after the people who robbed the bank.  

Detectives pull camera footage. They canvass the block. They look for anyone who came in more than once that week and took note of the surveillance cameras. They run the plate on the car that was idling outside, examine cell phone records, and check whether criminals with a similar method hit two other branches last spring. 

Now transplant those reflexes to a sexual assault case. What did the suspect in this sexual assault case do to create an opportunity? Who else saw them that night? What is on their phone, and who have they possibly done this to before? Those are ordinary investigative questions in other types of crime. But in sexual assault cases, they are the questions most likely to go unasked. 

Why the O Slips 

The reasons are structural, not a matter of bad faith. The survivor is standing in front of you and the suspect is not. Training hours have understandably concentrated on trauma and interviewing. Time pressure favors the parts of the call that can be closed out on a shift.  

And the consent question quietly pulls attention back toward the victim: whether she resisted, how much she drank, why she went to the apartment. Those inquiries feel investigative but they are directed at the wrong person. 

Survivors Cannot Describe What They Never Saw 

An offender’s work is often well underway before the victim knows anything is happening: selecting a target, testing boundaries, arranging isolation, choosing a location without witnesses, controlling who is drinking and how much. None of that is in the victim’s account because none of it was in their direct experience. Ask questions about the pre-planning, and you will hear “I don’t know,” which can read as a thin statement when in fact it’s not the right question for the right person. 

That information lives elsewhere: physical and digital evidence, third-party witnesses, prior police contacts, and suspects themselves.  

The same is true of what happens afterward, when offenders often work to set the narrative — texting the victim to establish a friendly record, posting about the night, or recording her visibly intoxicated so her credibility can be attacked later. Those artifacts are recoverable early and gone later. 

Assume This Is Not the Only One 

Research on the testing of previously unsubmitted sexual assault kits has reframed what a single report represents. Studies have found that suspects often have extensive criminal histories after the initial assault, often without a prior rape arrest anywhere in the file.  

As documented in the FBI Law Enforcement Bulletin and Sexual Assault Kit Initiative research library, jurisdictions that have tested their full inventory of rape kits have repeatedly identified serial offenders who were invisible one case at a time. That means the offender-focused work that a patrol officer does at 3 a.m. — running the plate, identifying prior contacts, filing the co-occurring charge — is not only about this case. It might be the first step in identifying a serial offender. 

The Test Before You Clear 

One question, asked honestly, catches most of the gap: Does my report tell an investigator what this suspect said and did, or just what happened to this victim?  

A response that answers only the second question may be compassionate. But it was also half a response. The O is what turns care into consequences. 

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